9 minutes ago
We constantly compare: She is smarter, he is fitter, my dad would like me more if I was X,Y,Z. .
Let’s get some things straight:
•Where are these people? They’re not where you think they are. They are in your eye, in you, in your perception. •You are giving them attributes and skills, all of which are in you, otherwise how can you give them outwards? •Do you know who YOU are? •Are you fulfilling your purpose and expressing your nature? •Or is it that you are constantly shifting your focus on others, either comparing, or striving to fulfil *your concept* of what their expectations are of you? 📚My story: my mother always wanted me to be a famous orange triangle. My father a blue elliptical shape with success. School told me to be just another fish in the pond that caused no trouble, in my previous career I was expected to be this multitasking dotted line that changes from purple to light blue depending on the client and friends treated me like I was always a strong blue heart. Partners are different volumes 😂.
🌀I tried my hardest to make them all happy, not having the time or focus to recognize my nature, fulfil and express it, for many years. .
⚠️My body was weak, got all sorts of ailments and was in constant pain. .
⚠️I developed scoliosis by pulling my spine left and right, trying to please them all (our Spine is the pillar or our existence-check my Spine post to see what emotions lead to spinal problems). .
⚠️The weight of their expectations was causing permanent pain on my shoulders and neck (check my dedicated posts for the emotional blockages leading to ailments on our Shoulders and Neck). ⚠️Of course, I was lost, stressed out, and unhappy. .
🤦♀️Needless to say, they were not happy either! Mother was furious when I was not a famous orange triangle, and father was disappointed when I was. .
👉Sounds familiar?! If so, my tip for you is simple, straightforward and easy to remember: .
✨MIND YOUR OWN BUSINESS!😉.
You’ve heard this before, but try looking at it from this point of view😉 .
🌀What are your ailments and physical issues? Can you see what Comparisons do to your physical & mental health?
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